SPEAKING
Fred (& Andrea's) passion is to help God's people understand and apply God's Word to their lives and to grow in a deeper relationship with God and their spouses. All of our speaking engagements (individually or together) reflect the authority of Scripture, the presence of grace, and with a splash of humor.
Designed2bMine Marriage Seminars
With over 20 years of experience counseling marriages and almost 30 years of being married, Fred (& Andrea) provides the biblical wisdom and practical instruction to help Christian marriages grow in truth & grace.
Communication
Conflict Resolution
Understanding Each Other's Differences
Sexual Intimacy
and more!
Fred is available for one-day or multiple day seminars, conferences, church retreats, men's breakfasts, or pulpit supply. Andrea is also available to join Fred in Marriage Retreats as well. Just ask!
Designed 2b ONE Sexual Intimacy Seminars / Retreats
Fred & Andrea take couples on a journey to restore and refresh their sexual intimacy. Physical Intimacy is rarely talked about in the church, leaving many couples frustrated by their differences and sexual dilemmas. Designed 2b ONE is all about increasing the physical intimacy between spouses:
A Quick(ie) Theology of Sex
The 5 Motives of Sexual Engagement
How to Talk About Sex with Your Spouse
Creative Connection: Tips for Spicy Intimacy
Heart Connection, Hip Connection
The Desire Dilemma
Overcoming Obstacles to Great Sex
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Fred & Andrea are available for 3-hr workshops, one-day or multiple day seminars, conferences, & church retreats.
Mental & Spiritual Health / Wellness
It's extremely important for us to view our present mental health and wellness through the lens of Scripture. As a Christ-centered counselor, Fred shares how the understanding & application of God's Word helps us in the midst of these struggles:
Anxiety & the Gospel
Grace Over Depression
Confronting Stress & Overwhelm
Battling Addictions Biblically
Fred is available for workshops, one-day or multiple day seminars, conferences, church retreats, men's breakfasts or pulpit supply.
1-3 Hour Workshops & Trainings
Fred is available to train lay counselors and small groups on a number of topics (listed above) as well as:
Designed2bOne - Sexual Intimacy (with Andrea Jacoby)
Methods of Biblical Counseling (training)
Overcoming People Pleasing
Men's Health (depression, anxiety, "husbanding")
Lead in Love (for Men)
Designed2bDifferent (Personality Differences through a Biblical Lens)
Marital Communication
Resolving Conflicts Biblically
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Workshops work great for Christian camps, church discipleship ministries, men's (Fred) or women's (Andrea) breakfasts, counseling organizations, and other ministries!
What People Are Saying...
"As the host Pastor, The Designed2BMine marriage seminar was an exceptional weekend for couples at any stage—whether newlyweds or seasoned veterans. Fred and Andrea delivered a Christ-centered approach to marriage, offering fresh, scripture-grounded insights on key topics. This seminar was a powerful reminder of God’s design for marriage and provided practical tools to strengthen relationships through faith and love. Highly recommended for couples seeking to deepen their connection and grow together in Christ." - Pastor Adam Crain, Cedar Crest Bible Fellowship Church
“Fred's focus on the heart and personal change as well as his examples and illustrations have helped me develop better focus on my marriage.”
Course Registrant
“The things I take away leave me with greater Godly wisdom and helps me reset my perspective when I really need it.”
Former Client
"Thanks again, Fred. We got many good reviews from those who attended the seminar.”
Pastor Joe Gandia - Beaumont Methodist Church
SCHEDULE
2024
11/2 - Cornerstone Community Church - Marriage Workshop (with Andrea)
11/9 - NEC Leadership Summit, Cortland, NY (with Andrea)
11/15-16 - Allentown, PA - Cedar Crest BFC - Designed2bMine Marriage Seminar
11/24 - Cornerstone Church - Pulpit Supply
2025
2/8 - Spruce Lake Couples Retreat Breakout Session
2/25 - Spruce Lake Pastor Spouse Retreat Breakout
3/15 - Waverly, NY - Marriage Seminar
5/15 - 6/5 - COURAGEOUS Cohort (for people pleasers)
6/8 - Cornerstone Community Church - Pulpit Supply
7/6-11 - Spruce Lake Retreat Family Week
8/10 - Cornerstone Community Church - Pulpit Supply
10/31-11/2 - Gehman Mennonite Spiritual Renewal Weekend, Adamstown, PA
11/7-9 - Harvey Cedar's Couple Retreat
12/21 - Cornerstone Community Church - Pulpit Supply
2026
3/22 - Rome, PA Marriage Seminar
