Intimate Connection Ministries
HEALTHY MARRIAGES DON'T SETTLE
THEY GROW TOGETHER
In just five weeks, you'll gain practical, biblical tools to deepen your emotional, physical, and spiritual connection with your spouse - and with God.
Designed2bMine
... is more than a marriage course. It's a practical, biblical journey that helps Christian couples build deeper emotional, physical, and spiritual intimacy.
Married Couples
Deepen your emotional, physical, and spiritual intimacy with our Designed2bMine Marriage Journey.
Pastors or Leaders
Discover how Designed2bMine can be used in Small groups, Sunday School, and Marriage Retreats.
Even Good Marriages Need Intentional Care
Whether you’ve been married for one year or fifty, every marriage needs intentional care to rise above the pull of life’s routines. Between work, children, responsibilities, technology, and life's constant demands, it's easy for even healthy marriages to drift into routine instead of deep connection. The good news is that you don't have to settle. With intentional investment and biblical guidance, your marriage can grow stronger than ever.
Is this course for me? Whether you're...
A Christian couple who wants to try something new to grow together
A Christian couple thinking about counseling, but not sure you're ready for that step
A Christian couple in counseling and want to supplement your counseling
A Christian husband or wife who wants to grow personally for their marriage
A husband, wife or couple who may not be Christian, but are willing to make progress in their marriage through Biblical wisdom
A Pastor, Small Group Leader, or Sunday School Teacher looking for a new marriage curriculum
Wherever your marriage is today, Designed2bMine will give you a practical, biblical path toward a stronger emotional, physical, and spiritual connection.
Is this course for me? Whether you're...
A Christian couple who wants to try something new to grow together
A Christian couple thinking about counseling, but not sure you're ready for that step
A Christian couple in counseling and want to supplement your counseling
A Christian husband or wife who wants to grow personally for their marriage
A husband, wife or couple who may not be Christian, but are willing to make progress in their marriage through Biblical wisdom
A Pastor, Small Group Leader, or Sunday School Teacher looking for a new marriage curriculum
Wherever your marriage is today, Designed2bMine will give you a practical, biblical path toward a stronger emotional, physical, and spiritual connection.
by the end of
Designed2bMine
you will have...
Identified and begun addressing the greatest obstacle to a healthy marriage.
Taken practical steps to connect more deeply with your spouse.
Grown in your understanding and appreciation of your God-given differences.
Developed communication skills to work through conflict together.
Taken steps toward becoming closer friends and more connected lovers.
Deepened your understanding of God’s plan for you and your marriage.
About Fred and Andrea...
Fred is the Founder of Foundations Christian Counseling Services and serves as the Counseling Pastor of Cornerstone Community Church. Fred is also the author of The Black & White Thinking Christian.
Andrea is an Intermediate School Counselor. At their home church, Andrea serves as the Worship Team Coordinator, VBS Coordinator, co-leads the Women's Ministry, and leads several women's Bible Studies.
Together, they founded Intimate Connection Ministries and serve as Intimacy Coaches for couples. Fred & Andrea have been married for 30 years and have twin adult sons, Benjamin & Caleb, and a dog named Milton.
"Our communication has improved. We have improved our prayer life and are doing daily devotions together. We are learning to put our marriage under God. Thank you!"
- D2BM Recipient
"The things I take away leaves me with greater Godly wisdom and helps me reset my perspective when I need it."
- Former Client
"As a result of this course, we are talking and praying through situations. We are gaining a better understanding of our spouse's needs."
- D2bM Recipient
Start your Journey with
Designed2bMine
In The Next Few Months, You Could...
Communicate better, deeper, and with grace
Resolve conflicts more naturally and with respect
Understand one another and appreciate your strengths and differences
Become more connected to your spouse (& God) than ever before!
The right amount of effort with the right heart submitting to a Righteous God will bring a right relationship!
In The Next Few Months,
You Could...
Communicate better, deeper, and with grace
Resolve conflicts more naturally and with respect
Understand one another and appreciate your strengths and differences
Become more connected to your spouse (& God) than ever before!
The right amount of effort with the right heart submitting to a Righteous God will bring a right relationship!
What's Included In
Designed2bMine?
MODULE 1
Designed2bIntimate
Connection Begins at the Heart
God designed your marriage for intimacy, and lasting intimacy begins with a transformed heart. In this module, you'll discover why couples drift apart, what's keeping you from deeper intimacy, and how God begins restoring your marriage from the inside out.
Here's what you'll take away:
Understand why couples naturally drift apart.
Discover what's keeping your marriage from deeper intimacy.
Recognize the heart issues that quietly fuel conflict and disconnection.
Learn God's design for emotional, physical, and spiritual intimacy.
Take the first practical steps toward lasting change
MODULE 2
Designed2bDifferent
Understand Your God-Given Differences
God uniquely designed each of you to reflect His image in different yet complementary ways. In this module, you'll discover how understanding those differences can replace frustration with appreciation and lay the foundation for better communication, healthier conflict resolution, and deeper intimacy.
After completing this module, you'll:
Discover how God uniquely designed you and your spouse.
Complete the InHim Personality Inventory (InHim-PI) together.
Understand why you see situations differently.
Recognize common areas of misunderstanding before they become conflict.
Learn how greater understanding leads to better communication and deeper connection.
MODULE 3
Designed2bConnected
Connect Through Communication
Great communication is about more than saying the right words. It's about understanding each other's hearts. In this module, you'll learn practical, biblical skills to communicate with greater understanding, listen with humility, and build deeper emotional intimacy. When hearts connect, every other area of marriage, including physical intimacy, grows stronger.
After completing this module, you'll:
Discover why communication breaks down.
Learn how to listen beyond words to your spouse's heart.
Help your spouse feel heard, understood, and valued.
Communicate with greater humility, grace, and truth.
Grow in the kind of relationship where you truly know and are known.
MODULE 4
Designed2bRedeemed
Improve Your Conflict Resolution
Conflict isn't something to fear. It's one of God's greatest opportunities to grow your marriage. It can become one of the greatest opportunities to build trust, deepen intimacy, and grow more like Christ. In this module, you'll learn practical, biblical tools to transform conflict from a source of division into a pathway toward deeper connection.
By the end of the fourth module, you'll:
Discover your conflict style and learn healthier ways to respond.
Turn emotional reactions into thoughtful, Christ-centered responses.
Apply practical, biblical principles to resolve conflict with grace.
Replace blame and bitterness with forgiveness and reconciliation.
Build a stronger spiritual foundation by praying together as husband and wife.
MODULE 5
Designed2bONE
Strengthen Your Sexual Intimacy
Healthy sexual intimacy doesn't begin in the bedroom. It grows from trust, emotional connection, honest communication, and God's good design for marriage. In this final module, you'll discover how to build a mutually satisfying sexual relationship, emotionally connect, and honor Christ—because meaningful hip connection grows from genuine heart connection.
At the end of this final module, you'll:
Better understand God's design for sexual intimacy in marriage.
Identify the heart and physical obstacles affecting your sexual relationship.
Communicate openly and confidently about sexual intimacy.
Better understand your spouse's desires and work through desire differences together.
Create a practical plan to continue growing in your sexual relationship.
Don't settle for good. Become GREAT Together!
When you enroll TODAY, you'll get:
Designed2bMine
(A $748 Value)
5 Implementation modules showing EVERYTHING you need to get started to restore and refresh your marriage
$699 Value
A Step by Step plan showing you how to improve your communication and resolve conflicts better
Key sexual insights, understandings, and tips that will lift your bedroom intimacy up a few notches
Our unique InHim Personality Profile created to discover more about yourself, your spouse, and how your differences complement one another
$49 Value
The opportunity to grow in your marriage so that you can become better friends and better lovers!
Priceless!
You'll be given access to one module per week so that you have ample time to review, reflect, and respond to each lesson and execute steps to improve your marriage BEFORE moving on to the next lesson.
We do this to protect your time, attention, and focus and to spare you from the intense overwhelm that stops most people from moving forward.
Plus These Bonuses to Help You and Your Spouse Create Momentum and Generate Connection & Growth
BONUSES
(A $748 Value)
ADDITIONAL BONUSES with Biblical, Practical & Applicable Tips for Your Marriage.
Including:
Access to our BONUS WEBINARS which include:
Biblical Boundaries to Build Your Marriage
The 5 Motives That Will Make or Break Your Marriage
Growing Your Spiritual Connection
Physical Intimacy Conversation Starters to improve your intimacy
Physical Intimacy Resource List to improve and add spice to your intimacy
Workbook to guide you and take notes
Leader's Guide for those who purchase the extended Group license
Opportunity to join the private Designed2bMine Facebook group
PLUS You'll be Backed by a Risk-Free 10-Day Guarantee
Let me say this upfront.
Designed2bMine is an excellent course that will help you and your spouse restore and refresh the marriages for those who are COMMITTED to the process. As the Bible says - Don't just hear the words, but put them into practice. While this verse is about applying God's Word, we'll agree and apply the principle here - you can learn it, but you have to apply it for the course to work!
Now, here's the thing -
By the end of these 10 days, you'll have received access to the first two modules.
Meaning, you'll have had the opportunity to learn and apply some of the course material.
If you don't feel you're ready to commit to the course or to apply what is learned in the course, simply reach out, show us the work you've put in, and we'll refund your investment.
Frequently Asked Questions
For best results, it would be great to take it together. However, one spouse can take this course alone and implement all that is learned. Personal change will also change a marriage!
Once you register, you will be sent a link to your personal portal where you can watch the pre-recorded videos whenever and wherever you like (as long as there is internet).
If everything learned is applied by both spouses, progress will come sooner than later! But remember, we are all works in progress and change is not overnight. But keep applying everything taught in these lessons and don't give up!
"He who began a good work in you will carry it out to completion." Php 1:6
Fred will be available for technical issues with the course and will also be available for couples coaching (additional cost). You can also join our facebook group and post questions for support there as well!
Of course! While the audience is married couples, those getting married can certainly benefit from this as well!
Absolutely! While the course is for couples to watch at home, a small group can watch 1-3 lessons at a time and use the Workbook and Leader's Guide to facilitate discussion. Click HERE for our Group Page. There is an additional Group License that is required to be purchased for permission to do this.
The purchase of this product is for ONE COUPLE ONLY. But Feel free to share the course link with them (in your browser right now!)
Still Thinking about it?
Give Designed2bMine a 10-Day Risk-Free Trial if you're motivated by any of the following...
You want to honor Christ better in your marriage
You wish to prevent your marriage from becoming disconnected
The intimacy you once felt has diminished and you need a Marriage "Refresh" or "Boost"
Conflicts have caused hurt and you need a better way to resolve them
You don't want to repeat the same broken patterns that have yielded the same broken results
You truly want to become the couple you were designed by God to be!
That's why you're motivated to invest the next 5 weeks for the next 5, 15, or even 50 years of your marriage! Don't wait!
Still Thinking about it?
Give Designed2bMine a 10-Day Risk-Free Trial if you're motivated by any of the following...
You want to honor Christ better in your marriage
You wish to prevent your marriage from becoming disconnected
The intimacy you once felt has diminished and you need a Marriage "Refresh" or "Boost"
Conflicts have caused hurt and you need a better way to resolve them
You don't want to repeat the same broken patterns that have yielded the same broken results
You truly want to become the couple you were designed by God to be!
That's why you're motivated to invest the next 5 weeks for the next 5, 15, or even 50 years of your marriage! Don't wait!
GET STARTED with the Designed2bMine Journey Today!
We look forward to guiding you over these next 5+ weeks!
Helping couples connect emotionally, spiritually, and physically has been a passion Andrea and I have shared for a number of years.
Married for 30 years, Andrea and I have experienced the highs and lows of marriage. Even as counselors, we had a lot to learn and we needed the wisdom of His Word and guidance by His Spirit.
Yet after years of helping couples and working through life by faith, we are excited to share what has not only helped us, but many couples throughout the years.
If you're a Christian couple who is struggling, or at least, knows there is room to improve in your communication, conflict resolution, sexual and spiritual intimacy, then this course will help your marriage get to the next level.
Your marriage (which is a big part of your life) is worth the investment you put into it. You'll discover that your changes will not only change you but also your marriage! And maybe even your kids! The cost of not doing anything can be even greater.
We look forward to "seeing you" inside Designed2bMine!
Blessings!
Fred & Andrea Jacoby
We look forward to guiding you over these next 5+ weeks!
Helping couples connect emotionally, spiritually, and physically has been a passion Andrea and I have shared for a number of years.
Married for 30 years, Andrea and I have experienced the highs and lows of marriage. Even as counselors, we had a lot to learn and we needed the wisdom of His Word and guidance by His Spirit.
Yet after years of helping couples and working through life by faith, we are excited to share what has not only helped us, but many couples throughout the years.
If you're a Christian couple who is struggling, or at least, knows there is room to improve in your communication, conflict resolution, sexual and spiritual intimacy, then this course will help your marriage get to the next level.
Your marriage (which is a big part of your life) is worth the investment you put into it. You'll discover that your changes will not only change you but also your marriage! And maybe even your kids! The cost of not doing anything can be even greater.
We look forward to "seeing you" inside Designed2bMine!
Blessings!
Fred & Andrea Jacoby
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